I was catching up with my friend Abby that I haven’t seen since December. Since I saw her 3 months ago a lot has changed for her - she met her current boyfriend, he’s moved in with her and they got a puppy!
I know what you’re thinking - isn’t that moving really fast for only going out for 3 months?
Well, possibly but she’s unbelievably happy and she said to me “I’m going to do this until it sucks, and then I’m going to get out just as fast as I got in.” She's a woman after my own heart.
Abby said the only reason she wasn’t going to move in with her boyfriend is because of what other people would think – then she realized she didn’t care. Why let the judgement of other people stop you from doing what’s going to make you happy (unless it’s illegal, then you should probably think twice and have bail money ready just in case).
There will always be people who are going to judge and disagree with what you think or what you’re doing, especially is its non-conformist. Don’t listen to them, it’s your life do what you want to do. Can you imagine if I listened to people about settling down into a serious relationship in my early 20s? I knew it wasn’t what I wanted and it wouldn’t make me happy. I can’t keep my nails painted the same colour for 5 days and I’m supposed to pick one guy? By dating many men, I not only keep myself very happy, but also very entertained. And I acquire wonderful stories for all of you.
So go do something that makes you happy.
I haven’t seen my Handsome Man again (trust me I’ve been looking). So I’m killing time toying with Cheap Thrill – I figure it doesn’t suck and he has the most important quality in a man – he gives me good writing material.
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